Seeing God Through the Tears by Dr. Mel Oquendo

Speaking

Dr. Oquendo is a dynamic and engaging speaker who brings over two decades of ministry and leadership experience to every platform. He speaks on a wide range of topics, including leadership development, theological training, men’s conferences, and multicultural or cross-cultural ministry. Whether addressing pastors, congregations, or ministry teams, Dr. Oquendo communicates with clarity, depth, and passion—equipping others to grow in faith, lead with integrity, and serve with cultural intelligence. His messages are grounded in Scripture, informed by real-world experience, and delivered with authenticity and heart.

Conferences

Mel and his lovely wife, Jeanette, are passionate about strengthening marriages through transformative conferences, workshops, and coaching sessions. With a heart for helping couples grow, they equip couples not only to navigate and prevent crises but also to cultivate lasting, joy-filled relationships. By sharing their own journey with authenticity and grace, Mel and Jeanette offer hope, encouragement, and practical tools—reminding couples that breakthrough, healing, and deeper connection are possible in every season of marriage.

About Us

Dr. Mel Oquendo

Dr. Mel Oquendo is a dynamic speaker, seasoned trainer, recording artist, author, and servant leader with a passion for empowering others. Specializing in ministerial leadership and family and marriage dynamics, Mel is committed to helping individuals, couples, and teams grow into stronger leaders, pastors, parents, and spouses.

He holds a Bachelor of Science in Ministerial Leadership with a Minor in Pastoral Leadership from Southeastern University, a Master of Divinity, and a Doctor of Ministry in Preaching and Leading from Asbury Theological Seminary. With this strong academic foundation, Mel integrates deep theological insight with practical leadership strategies across all areas of ministry and life.

With more than 25 years of ministerial experience, Mel’s journey began early—serving as a youth director at age 16 and becoming an associate pastor by 19. In 2000, he relocated to Orlando, Florida, where he was instrumental in planting six churches and campuses. Recently, he served as the Lead Pastor of River City Church in St. Charles, Illinois, where he led with vision, compassion, and a heart for service.

Mel specializes in multicultural and cross-cultural ministry, equipping churches and leaders to navigate cultural complexity with wisdom and grace. Whether through preaching, teaching, coaching, or conference speaking, his message is marked by authenticity, clarity, and a deep love for the Church.